If you want to get attractive women to go out with you, you must do things that the average male cannot do or will not do. Yes, you must step outside your comfort zone, and go for it.
Here's what attractive women like, confident men. A normal man might walk up to a beautiful woman and buy her a drink. A high value male might go up to that same woman, and ask her to buy him the drink. Then he might even say, but hey, don't get any funny ideas. Don't think just because you get me drunk, I'm going to put out for you.
A wussy wouldn't have the guts to say something like that, but a confident man would.
It's important to understand the difference between confidence and cockiness. You can say the exact line above, and it can be construed either way. If you say it with a sly smile and in a manner that conveys you're joking, then it's funny and it also demonstrates confidence You're not afraid if she doesn't appreciate it.
However, if you say it like you truly think you're the second coming of Christ, you won't come across as attractive, you'll come across as a bonehead.
Which leads us to our next point, body language and vocal tonality are almost everything. It's one thing to say you're confident. It's another thing to demonstrate confidence with unshakable body language.
Let me give you an example, I know someone who can create almost instant attraction in a beautiful woman within the first three seconds of meeting her. It's all in how he walks up to her and how he introduces himself.
Here's what he does. He waits until he sees a good looking woman look at him. Then he looks directly back into her eyes, and never breaking eye contact, walks over to her. While walking toward her, he has a smirk on his face that makes it look like he knows an inside joke that she isn't apart of.
Then he says to her. You can't look at me that way without at least saying hi to me... And he says it just the right way that communicates he's totally at ease in his own skin.
Body language and vocal tonality are everything, when it comes to getting attractive women. Most males have needy body language and their tonality reeks of insecurity. Fix these things, and not only will women think you're more confident, you'll actually become more confident.
By Anne-Marie Thebeau

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