Women have a tendency to do things in the beginning of a relationship that can push a mans buttons in the wrong direction. Many times this will be unintentional and brought about because of the distinct differences between a man and a woman.
These 10 mistakes will bother some men more than others. The most important thing is to be aware of what you do in your relationship in order to avoid regretting your actions later on.
1. You're more interested in using your cell phone than anything else in the world.
Texting and calling, calling and texting, then texting some more. Look if you are more interested in talking to your friends on the cell phone then your relationship then why bother being in a relationship. Using your cell phone constantly is like telling your significant other, "I don't care about you, I'm more interested in communicating with my friends then paying attention to you." This will make him want to talk to other girls, and let you do your own thing.
2. All you care about is spending money.
If I had a dollar for every time I heard a man grumble and complain about his wife or girlfriend spending too much money, I would be a rich man. A woman that genuinely cares about their mates financial well being and isn't materialistic is an attractive trait for any man. Show you care about the man, not just the money.
3. Don't be too jealous.
Be careful about being so jealous that you make the relationship unbearable. It's okay for your man to have a friendly conversation with another woman. As long as it stays respectable for you and there is no physical contact, you should be perfectly fine with your man having other women as friends.
4. Talking too much can be annoying.
Many men will be good listeners for a period of time, but when you start rambling on about the latest gossip then he may consider buying a pair of ear plugs. Give him a chance to speak what's on his mind and you'll reach a healthy balance in communication in your relationship.
5. Don't show up at his work unless invited.
Let him invite you to to his work. It could be an uncomfortable situation if you show up to work and meet his co-workers when he is unprepared. You never know when he might be having a bad day at work.
6. Bringing up past relationships can cause serious problems.
Past relationships are better left alone. Curiosity always gets the best of people and they usually end up talking about the details of their past relationships, but bringing them up often can be a recipe for a breakup. Concentrate on living in the now, instead of what happened in the past and you will be able to build your relationship in a positive way.
7. The drama queen adventure.
A great way to make a man run away is by making everything that happens in life a dramatic experience. Having a calm, cool and collected persona will make you much more attractive and pleasant to be around.
8. Give him space.
Giving him space will make him pursue you. If you are always smothering him and taking up his time he may tend to take you for granted.
9. Make yourself a challenge.
Most men like a challenge. If you give yourself to him too soon you won't be a challenge anymore, and if this happens too soon it may cause him to move on to a bigger challenge. Refrain from having sex early on if you really care about having a good relationship with him.
10. Bringing up marriage too soon can be a disaster.
If you bring up marriage too early in the relationship, it can be a real relationship killer. You're going to make him nervous and put unnecessary strain on your new relationship. Let him bring up the possibility of marriage. After all he is the one that is supposed to be asking you in the first place.
By Louis Dale
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